no more apologies



the other day i stumbled across this idea over at Casey Wiegand's blog. she wrote about how she had this experience of finally being over apologies. that's not to say we shouldn't say sorry if we hurt someone else's feelings, but we need not apologize for the things in which make us who we are. and it hit me! i do this all the time, but no more. this is who i am:

i am that wife that likes to spend all her time with her husband. not that i don't adore my friends.

i am not that wife that is a good cook. in fact, we are the ones who will eat cereal for breakfast, sandwiches for lunch, and anything that can easily be put in the oven or microwave for dinner.

i am that girl that gets her feelings hurt easily.

i am not that girl that gets to things on time. i am at least 3-5 minutes late to ev-er-y-thing!


i am that girl that knows everything about every single celebrity, which movie they've been in, where' their from, who they have dated, etc. i should work for IMDB. just sayin'.


i am not the person to share my food if i think it's really good.


i am that friend who will be there when you just need someone to listen.


i am not that wife that does everything right.


i am that person who goes grocery shopping in their pajamas.


you know what? i feel really good about this. i suggest we all make little pledges like this. no more apologies.
p.s. happy two monthiversary mr. taylor! love you!!

32 comments:

  1. I don't like to share my food if it's god either. I give dagger eyes to people who try. You are not alone =) I also like the idea of no apologies too. I may have to try this

    - Sarah
    http://agirlintransit.blogspot.com/

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  2. your blog is darling!
    heard you're coming to the blogger meet up!

    xo

    ashley


    ashley-warner.blogspot.com

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  3. I love this post :) I recently wrote a similar post about embracing who I am, and I think its great that you are doing that today too! I love your blog...so cute! :)

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  4. wow...this sounds soo much like me :) PS you are looking gorgeous!
    Smoking Crayolas Blogspot

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  5. I love this idea. It sounds exactly like me -- I don't like to apologize for the little things. It isn't a pride thing; I just don't see the point in apologizing for things I can't change, such as who I am.

    I am not sorry that I spend all of my free time with Mr. A. He is my entire world. <3
    I am not sorry that I can't cook. Mr. A is the cook between us. If it was up to me, I would be eating sandwiches and salads for every meal.

    http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/
    Twitter: @GlamKitten88

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  6. can i just say we would be BFF's. I LOVE everything about celebrities. Im like a celebrity junkie. (and i cant cook either.) I love this post idea.

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  7. :) HI DOLL!

    thanks for stopping by my blog <3

    i really like your blog
    want to follow each other?
    let me know so i can add you :)


    xoxo
    www.onlyaflightaway.blogspot.com

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  8. At first I was like, "No - we NEED to be able to apologize" and then I realized what you were really saying. I totally agree, we shoes be aware of who and what we are and learn to appriciate ourselves with love and respect - awesome message :)

    Aya ♥ Strawberry Koi

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  9. :) ok so i went ahead and pressed follow :)
    i just finished reading your entire blog
    and i love every single entry! you are amazing
    and you and your husband make the cutest couple ever!

    so crazy that i saw your engagement pictures without even knowing you because i been following Jessica's blog for a long time :)


    i hope we keep in touch .. <3<3

    your new follower <3
    www.onlyaflightaway.blogspot.com

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  10. lovve this...i love casey! xoxo ashley from TSP

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  11. Thanks for the comment, you are super sweet. And I LOVE this post, this is something I should probably start trying to do with you :).

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  12. Great post! I think we all need to work on not apologizing for things we aren't at fault for! :)

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  13. This post is such a great idea! :)

    ~ Angela
    grahamandangela.blogspot.com

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  14. I love this post! I think I may need to write one myself. I would definitely have some similar things on my list as well! We are the way God made us... we can grow...but we don't need to apologize for a darn thing about who we are! :)

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  15. I love this. I definitely need to write one of these myself. Even if it's not on the blog just writing it down for myself would be good. :] Love it! Thanks for sharing!

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  16. thank you for sharing this. i needed to hear this right now. i apologize a lot, and sometimes i feel really silly when i do it too often and too much. i should really start to embrace myself and not let what people think about me get me down. (:

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  17. love this post! it feels good to be honest!

    http://thelittlebrunettemermaid.blogspot.com

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  18. I seriously love this post! doesn't it feel good to vent? ha. based on this post- you and i are so similar. let's be friends (; i am the worst at apologizing for everything!

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  19. I definitely shop in my pjs. i love how honest you are!! u go girl :)

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  20. Awwww what a sweet post. Made my heart melt. Happy anniversary to you and your husband. So sweet.

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  21. i totally totally agree & love this!!

    and i'm so glad i'm not the only one who goes grocery shopping in my pj's :)

    ♥elisabeth

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  22. This is too cute. And I love your "about me" section -- that's so sweet!
    xo Josie
    www.winksmilestyle.com

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  23. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I LOVE YOURS! I'd love for you to follow- let me know Ill follow back.

    I love this post, I wish everyone would do this.

    Summer

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  24. i think i was you 200th follower lol! :) love love love your blog, what you share and your style, you are beautiful!!! this post is amazing... i do food shopping my leggings and t-shirts most days. i don't think the fruit cares how i look ;)

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  25. love this post...I usually am late all the time too and happen to love spending my time with the boyfriend.

    erica

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  26. K I LOVE this! I know I hate always feeling like I have to justify myself. Good post, I LOVE it! May just have to copy you one of these days.... :)

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  27. aawwwww u look soo great lovely smile<3

    love
    delasheela.blogspot.com

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  28. U're so sweet and down-earth adorable being!! I must to love u cause of all these small things!;)
    kisses
    Jelena (glamfabchameleon.blogspot.com)

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  29. i'm sorry, i like this a lot. just kidding. i am not the girl who will apologize for liking a post about not apologizing :)

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  30. cute post! loving your blog. and thanks for visiting mine. :)
    have a lovely weekend, dear.

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